shine india monthly magazine december 2019
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india monthly magazine december 2019 Published this article page no Life after divorce is something that most
people who are going through divorce think about. Thinking about having a life
after divorce or thinking about how your life will be after divorce, are common
because people tend to fear for themselves.In fact, think about having a life
after divorce while getting a divorce can be a sticking point for some people
because they just aren't sure what their life will "look like" after
divorce.
Here's 5 things to keep in mind so can have a life after
divorce:
Life after divorce item 1:
Think about your emotional stability...if you wanted the
divorce or not, you must face it head on.Divorce is tough and whether you're
going through it or your are already past it, your emotional stability is of
vital importance because you might tend to be somewhat touchy after going
through an emotional ordeal. Keep in mind that your life after divorce can be
great but you must admit that you will go through (or have gone through) a
trying time in your life. Admitting this and facing your situation head on is
important to your emotional stability and critical to you having a happy life
after divorce.
Life after divorce item 2:
Look at the bright side, having life after divorce could be
a new start for you!How may times in your life do you wish you could have just
started over knowing what you know now? If you answered "many", don't
worry, that's a common thought most of us have. Having a positive mental
attitude about your new beginning will make a huge difference in how happy your
life will be after divorce. Life after divorce can be fantastic and it can also
be very tough if you don't remain positive about a what's in front of you. Look
at the glass as being "half full" and realize that, in order to be
happy after divorce, you must take advantage of the opportunity to get a fresh
start!
Life after divorce item 3:
Surround yourself
with people you like in your free time.Too often times people start new
relationships with just about anyone because they are lonely while getting a
divorce or after getting a divorce. Sparking a relationship, romantic or
friendly, with anyone and everyone who will spend time with you can contribute
to unhappiness in your life after divorce. Stop and think about the people that
you spend time with and ask yourself, "Once my emotional turmoil has
ended, would I really want to keep the relationship going with this
person?". Life after divorce is tough...so, when you're deciding about
divorce, going through one, or already have been through a divorce, make sure
that you carefully choose who to spend your free time with or you may fall into
more negativity in your life after divorce.
Life after divorce item 4:
Make it a point to
spend time doing things that you like to do every week.Make sure that you spend
time enjoying your life after divorce - don't forget to 'stop and smell the
roses'. Some people vent, work, go into hiding, or just plain go haywire after
getting a divorce and their subsequent life after divorce isn't as healthy as
possible. At least once a week, take the time to go and do something that you
really enjoy doing...it will help you deal with your life after divorce in a
more pleasing manner.
Life after divorce item 5:
Set specific goals and implement a plan to
achieve those goals.Life after divorce is a tumultuous time, your life can
seemingly be 'in the balance'. In order to make sure that you feel good about
yourself and enjoy the feeling that accomplishment brings, think about a goal
or set of goals that you've always had but never attained. Then, prioritize
those goals and devise a plan to obtain them, one by one. Implement each plan
and be happy (in fact celebrate) once you've reached your goal. Your life after
divorce will be markedly better and healthier if you take this concept to heart
and follow it.Visualizing your life after divorce (and thinking about what your
life might be like after divorce) is a sound and logical thing to do in order
to be happy after divorce. Your life after divorce does not need to be a
continuation of the pain you might have gone through or are currently going
through.Life after divorce can be extremely liberating if you act based on
logic plus positive emotions rather than negativity. If divorce is eminent or
you've already been through divorce, take the time to actually plan your life
after divorce. shine
india monthly magazine december 2019